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Wednesday, February 09, 2005

What to say...

I had to remove the comments in the last post because my blog was attacked again... by some anonymous poster from Pregnancy Weekly. The mean posts mentioned my "bitterness & jealously" and my "shriveled up ovaries" and for the most part takes cheap jabs at how funny these women think that my struggles are. Last night... as I lay in bed on cd 14... (we really needed to have TTCSex...) but instead... I lay there crying with my husband... because of the hateful words... the hurtful comments... and the fact that I had to delete all the sweet meaningful comments on my last post about how WONDERFUL Mr. D. is and what a great job he did on his decorating project... My husband reads my blog... My favorite aunt reads my blog... 2 of my "real life" friends read my blog... and although they don't post, the thought of them reading what this anonymous person wrote about me was to much to take.

My blog will be closed for "anonymous" comments for a while... I do hope you all keep reading though...

On a lighter note... I found this site for you.... If you are an English major you might like it... This is the EXACT format I use for most of my blog entries.


Blogger Jess said...


I am sorry for the hurtful things that are being said to you. You have a lot more friends than you do enemies...we are all here to support you and back you up, when it comes time.


5:37 AM  
Blogger Chas said...


I posted this on PW (under your Going on the Record post), but just incase you don't go back, I wanted you to see it....

****I know what you are saying and I agree completely. We all fought hard for this board. We wanted it because we NEED the support from people in similar situations as us. The shower and send-off was a great idea, because that meant someone that has been trying so hard finally got the BFP that they deserved. It was meant to be something that they could always look back on and think about the friends that they had made and the support that they received. It was to help remember some of the good things about the struggle to get what they wanted and not just the negative.

You are not the bad guy! You had the best of intentions and I admire the fact that you thought about doing something as wonderful for them as you did.

Don't give up on this board yet....give it a little more time and let things fizzle out here. If you do decide to go, know that I am thankful that I got you as a TTC buddy on the "Actively Trying" board, because you helped me make it through a lot. No matter what anyone says on this board or any other, know that you have made a difference in a lot of women's lives by telling your story on here and on your blog.

Also, and this is just my add on for any negative posters....Jamie has not brainwashed us into following her. I couldn't believe it when I read that. Jamie has given alot of us the inspiration to continue to try to reach our goal of ultimately holding a little bundle of joy in our arms. I for one don't have any children. I had a m/c in March 04. I am coming up on the year date for that and I haven't had another pg since. It gets hard....trying gets hard. Jamie has given us so much support and has talked a lot of us into not giving up on our dream of being a mother. So, for anyone who wants to say she has brain washed us into being her followers....think again! She is a support to us and we only hope that we can give her the support that she needs.****

So, that being said...ignore the people that are too ashamed to put their name with their posts. They aren't worth it. Don't let them make you miserable. We love ya!!!! You are a great person.


5:45 AM  
Blogger Suz said...

I'm so sorry. Trolls can spoil so much. So, I'll say it again for all posterity: Your Mr. D. is a wonderful, wonderful man! The pantry is cheery and beautiful.

7:14 AM  
Blogger E. said...

What is wrong with these "people?" (I use the term lightly.)

I'm so sorry.

7:29 AM  
Blogger Jenna said...

I am so sorry. I don't know why you are always the one to be atacked. I really hate that you have been through so much. I really love you Jamie and you have been there for all of us. I hate to know that you were crying last night instead of ttc sex. You are in my thoughts. Sorry again.

2:24 PM  
Blogger Erin said...

To the troll: There's nothing worse than a trolling coward. COWARD!! You're pathetic.

To Jamie: I'm sorry. I'm sorry this has upset you.

5:57 PM  
Blogger Rosanne said...

Jamie, I don't understand people sometimes. Why do they have to push others down? Is it just to make themselves feel better? Doesn't make any sense. Mr D is a wonderful husband. You are a wonderful wife. You will both make amazing parents! Don't let anyone, I mean anyone, tell you otherwise.

6:53 PM  
Blogger Jennifer said...

Stephen King once wrote a story (pre-Internet explosion) called "Word Processor of the Gods," where a writer realizes he can change the world through his computer. By deleting someone on his screen, he could delete them in reality.

That is just about literally true with the blogosphere. I know it's hard, but here's what I wish for you. I wish that you will soon just feel pity at those people. I mean, what kind of life can you have when you spend time on such cowardly, immature behavior?

Peace to you, girl.

2:23 AM  
Blogger Lala said...

I cannot believe how people could do stuff like that. You have never been anything but sweeter than sweet to me. Idyats!

3:46 PM  
Blogger Lesley said...

Oh Jamie.. I had a bad night too.. I was very upset after all the things they wrote on your Blog and as you know I told them all so. Your like my sister and when they attack my ttc family, they attack me too.They could not understand why I felt so upset, my post to them was deleted by Jade even though I was polite with my response to their nastiness and I had pasted exactly what they had said about us on it.. Strange how they did not remove the post on our board where they attacked us so nastily!! They also wrote on my Blog on the same day and that was just too much.
Hope they leave us be now.
Luv Lesley

4:06 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wonder if the troll who messed up your board is our troll. Take a look at our board - thanks Lana

Good luck - Nice blogg

3:03 AM  

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